وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ لَا نَذْرَ لِابْنِ آدَمَ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ , وَلَا عِتْقِ لَهُ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ , وَلَا طَلَاقَ
لَهُ فِيمَا لَا يَمْلِكُ } أَخْرَجَهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ وَاَلتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَصَحَّحَهُ, وَنُقِلَ عَنْ اَلْبُخَارِيِّ أَنَّهُ أَصَحُّ مَا وَرَدَ فِيهِ 1 .
1 - صحيح. رواه أبو داود (2190 و 2191 و 2192)، والترمذي (1181)، وقال الأخير. " وفي الباب عن علي، ومعاذ بن جبل، وجابر، وابن عباس، وعائشة. قال أبو عيسى: حديث عبد الله بن عمرو حديث حسن صحيح. وهو أحسن شيء روي في هذا الباب ". قلت: وقول البخاري نقله البيهقي في "الخلافيات"، وانظر "التلخيص" (310). وفي "الأصل" بيان لكل هذه الشواهد وطرقها.
Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib on his father's authority from his grandfather:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "No descendant of Adam may make a vow concerning something he does not possess, or set free (a slave) that he does not possess, or divorce (a woman) whom he does not possess (in marriage)." [Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi reported it; the latter graded it Sahih (authentic), and transmitted from al-Bukhari his statement that it is the most authentic Hadith on this subject].
Reported by Abu Dawud (No. 495, 1151, 2129, 3504), At-Tirmidhi (No. 1181, 1234, 2819, 3471), An-Nasa’i (No. 3353, 4611, 4630) and Ahmad (No. 6384, 6422, 6491, 6640, 6668). Cited in Bulugh al-Maram (No. 1084).
"Command your children to pray when they are seven years old, and beat them for (not offering) it when they are ten, and separate them (boys and girls) in beds."
‘Amr ibn Shu‘ayb reported from his father that his grandfather said that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said: “The son of Adam cannot make a vow concerning what is not his; he cannot free a slave who is not his; and he cannot divorce a woman who is not his…