وَعَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ شُعَيْبٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , عَنْ جَدِّهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ - صلى الله عليه وسلم -{ أَيُّمَا اِمْرَأَةٍ نَكَحَتْ عَلَى صَدَاقٍ , أَوْ حِبَاءٍ , أَوْ عِدَةٍ , قَبْلَ عِصْمَةِ اَلنِّكَاحِ , فَهُوَ لَهَا, وَمَا كَانَ بَعْدَ عِصْمَةِ اَلنِّكَاحِ , فَهُوَ لِمَنْ أُعْطِيَهُ, وَأَحَقُّ مَا أُكْرِمَ اَلرَّجُلُ عَلَيْهِ اِبْنَتُهُ , أَوْ أُخْتُهُ } رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ , وَالْأَرْبَعَةُ إِلَّا اَلتِّرْمِذِيَّ 1 .
1 - ضعيف . رواه أحمد ( 2 / 182 ) ، وأبو داود ( 2129 ) ، والنسائي ( 6 / 120 ) ، وابن ماجه ( 1955 ) من طريق ابن جريج ، عن عمرو ، به . وعلته عنعنة ابن جريج ، فهو مدلس.
Narrated 'Amr bin Shu'aib on his father's authority from his grandfather:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "If any woman marries for a dowry, a gift, or a promise before contracting the marriage, it belongs to her. As for whatever is fixed to her after contracting the marriage, it belongs to whomever it has been given. The most worthy gift a man is honored with is what he gets on account of (the marriage of) his daughter or sister." [Reported by Ahmad and al-Arba'a except at-Tirmidhi].
Reported by Abu Dawud (No. 495, 1151, 2129, 3504), At-Tirmidhi (No. 1181, 1234, 2819, 3471), An-Nasa’i (No. 3353, 4611, 4630) and Ahmad (No. 6384, 6422, 6491, 6640, 6668). Cited in Bulugh al-Maram (No. 1030).
"Command your children to pray when they are seven years old, and beat them for (not offering) it when they are ten, and separate them (boys and girls) in beds."
‘Amr ibn Shu‘ayb reported from his father that his grandfather said that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said: “The son of Adam cannot make a vow concerning what is not his; he cannot free a slave who is not his; and he cannot divorce a woman who is not his…