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Sunan Ibn Majah 3665

Chapter: Honoring one's father and being kind to daughters

Authentic 4 scholars’ grades Sunan Ibn Majah 3665

Narrator:Ā’ishah

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ قَدِمَ نَاسٌ مِنَ الأَعْرَابِ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالُوا أَتُقَبِّلُونَ صِبْيَانَكُمْ قَالُوا نَعَمْ ‏.‏ فَقَالُوا لَكِنَّا وَاللَّهِ مَا نُقَبِّلُ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏

"‏ وَأَمْلِكُ أَنْ كَانَ اللَّهُ قَدْ نَزَعَ مِنْكُمُ الرَّحْمَةَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

It was narrated that Aisha, said:

"Some Bedouin people came to the Prophet(ﷺ) and said: 'Do you kiss your children?' He said: 'Yes'. He said: 'But we, by Allah, never kiss (our children)'. The Prophet(ﷺ) said: 'What can I do if Allah has taken away mercy from you?'"

Reported by Ibn Majah (No. 3665).

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Classical commentary

Al-Sindi — Hashiyat al-Sindi on Sunan Ibn Majah

قَوْله ( أَتُقَبِّلُونَ صِبْيَانكُمْ ) مِنْ التَّقْبِيل ( وَأَمْلِك إِنْ كَانَ ) أَيْ أَمْلِك لَكُمْ الرَّحْمَة وَإِيقَاعهَا فِي قُلُوبكُمْ إِنْ كَانَ إِلَخْ وَالْمَقْصُود بَيَان أَنَّ هَذَا سَبَبه قِلَّة مَا فِي قُلُوبكُمْ مِنْ الرَّحْمَة وَكَثْرَة الْقَسْوَة.…

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Scholars’ grades

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3665
Shu'ayb al-Arna'utd. 1438 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3665
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH AuthenticSahih Muslim The hadith No. 3665
Muhammad Fu'ad Abd al-Baqid. 1388 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3665

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'A'isha said, "Some bedouins came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. One of their men said to him, 'Messenger of Allah, do you kiss children? By Allah, we do not kiss them.' The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Can I put mercy in your hearts…

وَعَنْ عَبْدَةَ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ‏:‏ أَتَى النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم نَاسٌ مِنَ الأعْرَابِ، فَقَالَ لَهُ رَجُلٌ مِنْهُمْ‏:‏ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، أَتُقَبِّلُونَ…

Narrated by Ā’ishah + 1 other version

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