Sunan Abu Dawud 3532

Chapter: Regarding A Man Who Takes His Right From Something That Is Under His Control

Authentic 4 scholars’ grades Sunan Abu Dawud 3532

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ، حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ، حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ هِنْدًا أُمَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ، جَاءَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَتْ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَإِنَّهُ لاَ يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَبَنِيَّ فَهَلْ عَلَىَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ آخُذَ مِنْ مَالِهِ شَيْئًا قَالَ ‏"‏

خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated 'Aishah:

Hind, the mother of Mu'awiyah, came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and said: 'Abu Sufyan is a stingy person. He does not give me as much (money) as suffices me and my children. Is there any harm to me if I take something from his property ? He said: Take as much as suffices you and your children according to the custom.

Reported by Abu Dawud (No. 3532).

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Al-Azimabadi — Awn al-Ma'bud

( أَنَّ هِنْدًا ) : هِيَ بِنْت عُتْبَة بْن رَبِيعَة زَوْج أَبِي سُفْيَان أَسْلَمَتْ عَام الْفَتْح بَعْد إِسْلَام زَوْجهَا فَأَقَرَّهُمَا رَسُول اللَّه صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ( إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَان ) : تَعْنِي زَوْجهَا وَاسْمه صَخْر بْن حَرْب اِبْن أُمَيَّة بْن عَبْد شَمْس بْن عَبْد مَنَافٍ ( رَجُل شَحِيح ) : أَيْ بِخَيْلِ حَرِيص وَهُوَ أَعَمّ مِنْ الْبُخْل لِأَنَّ الْبُخْل مُخْتَصّ بِمَنْعِ الْمَال وَالشُّحّ يَعُمّ مَنْع كُلّ شَيْء فِي جَمِيع الْأَحْوَال. كَذَا فِي الْفَتْح ( مَا يَكْفِينِي ) : أَيْ مِقْدَار مَا يَكْفِينِي مِنْ النَّفَقَة ( وَبَنِيَّ ) : بِالنَّصْبِ عَطْفًا عَلَى الضَّمِير الْمَنْصُوب ( أَنْ آخُذ مِنْ مَاله شَيْئًا ) : أَيْ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمه وَإِذْنه ( بِالْمَعْرُوفِ…

Scholar	Grade	Applies to	Work
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH	AuthenticSahih صحيح	The hadith	No. 3532
Shu'ayb al-Arna'utd. 1438 AH	AuthenticSahih	The hadith	No. 3532
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH	AuthenticSahih Bukhari (2211) Sahih Muslim (1714)	The hadith	No. 3532
Muhammad Muhyi al-Din Abd al-Hamidd. 1392 AH	AuthenticSahih	The hadith	No. 3532

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الأموال للقاسم بن سلام (1234)رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ ، أَفَآخُذُ مِنْ مَالِهِ ؟ , فَقَالَ : خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ , وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ , قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ أَبَا مُعَاوِيَةَ يُحَدِّثُهُ ، عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ
السنن الصغير للبيهقي (1850)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
السنن الكبرى للبيهقي (18865)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
السنن الكبرى للنسائي (5772)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
العيال (510)أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ ، وَإِنَّهُ لا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَبَنِيَّ ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ أَنْ آخُذَ مِنْ مَالِهِ شَيْئًا ؟ فَقَالَ : خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
المعجم الكبير للطبراني (20721)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ ، وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
المعجم الكبير للطبراني (20723)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
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مستخرج أبي عوانة (5051)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
مسند إسحاق بن راهويه (633)وَلا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَبَنِيَّ ، أَفَآخُذُ مِنْ مَالِهِ وَهُوَ لا يَعْلَمُ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ : خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
مسند ابن الجعد (2345)رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ ، وَإِنَّهُ لا يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَبَنِيَّ ، فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ جُنَاحٌ إِنْ أَخَذْتُ مِنْ مَالِهِ شَيْئًا ؟ , فَقَالَ : خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
مشكل الآثار للطحاوي (1592)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
مشكل الآثار للطحاوي (1593)خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ .
مصنف عبد الرزاق (16116)رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ , وَإِنَّهُ لا يُعْطِينِي إِلا مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهُوَ لا يَعْلَمُ , قَالَتْ : فَهَلْ عَلَيَّ فِي ذَلِكَشَيْءٌ ؟ قَالَ : خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَبَنِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ

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Not graded Riyad as-Salihin 1535

Hind, the wife of Abu Sufyan, said to the Prophet (ﷺ): Abu Sufyan is a niggardly man and does not give me and my children adequate provisions for maintenance unless I take something from his possession without his knowledge. The Prophet (ﷺ) said to her, "Take from his possessions on a reasonable…

"‏خذي ما يكفيك وولدك بالمعروف‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah + 9 other versions

Authentic Sunan Abu Dawud 3533

Hind came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy person. Is there any harm to me if I spend on his dependants from his property without his permission ? The Prophet (ﷺ) replied: There is no harm to you if you spend according to the custom.

لاَ حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُنْفِقِي عَلَيْهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah + 2 other versions

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih al-Bukhari 5359

Hind bint `Utba came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser so is it sinful of me to feed our children from his property?" Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "No except if you take for your needs what is just and reasonable. "

رَجُلٌ مِسِّيكٌ، فَهَلْ عَلَىَّ حَرَجٌ أَنْ أُطْعِمَ مِنَ الَّذِي لَهُ عِيَالَنَا قَالَ ‏"‏ لاَ إِلاَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah + 2 other versions

Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 2460

Hind bint `Utba (Abu Sufyan's wife) came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any harm if I spend something from his property for our children?" He said, there is no harm for you if you feed them from it justly and reasonably (with no extravagance).

لاَ حَرَجَ عَلَيْكِ أَنْ تُطْعِمِيهِمْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah + 1 other version

Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 2211

Hind, the mother of Mu'awiya said to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), "Abu Sufyan (her husband) is a miser. Am I allowed to take from his money secretly?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said to her, "You and your sons may take what is sufficient reasonably and fairly."

خُذِي أَنْتِ وَبَنُوكِ مَا يَكْفِيكِ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 5370

Hind (bint `Utba) said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any harm if I take of his property what will cover me and my children's needs?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Take (according to your needs) in a reasonable manner."

خُذِي بِالْمَعْرُوفِ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Sunan Abu Dawud 3532

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Hind came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy person. Is there any harm to me if I spend on his dependants from his property without his permission ? The Prophet (ﷺ) replied: There is no harm to you if you spend according to the custom.

Hind bint `Utba came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser so is it sinful of me to feed our children from his property?" Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "No except if you take for your needs what is just and reasonable. "

Hind bint `Utba (Abu Sufyan's wife) came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any harm if I spend something from his property for our children?" He said, there is no harm for you if you feed them from it justly and reasonably (with no extravagance).

Hind, the mother of Mu'awiya said to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), "Abu Sufyan (her husband) is a miser. Am I allowed to take from his money secretly?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said to her, "You and your sons may take what is sufficient reasonably and fairly."

Hind (bint `Utba) said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any harm if I take of his property what will cover me and my children's needs?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Take (according to your needs) in a reasonable manner."

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Hind came to the Prophet (ﷺ) and said: Messenger of Allah, Abu Sufyan is a stingy person. Is there any harm to me if I spend on his dependants from his property without his permission ? The Prophet (ﷺ) replied: There is no harm to you if you spend according to the custom.

Hind bint `Utba came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser so is it sinful of me to feed our children from his property?" Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "No except if you take for your needs what is just and reasonable. "

Hind bint `Utba (Abu Sufyan's wife) came and said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any harm if I spend something from his property for our children?" He said, there is no harm for you if you feed them from it justly and reasonably (with no extravagance).

Hind, the mother of Mu'awiya said to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), "Abu Sufyan (her husband) is a miser. Am I allowed to take from his money secretly?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said to her, "You and your sons may take what is sufficient reasonably and fairly."

Hind (bint `Utba) said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Abu Sufyan is a miser. Is there any harm if I take of his property what will cover me and my children's needs?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Take (according to your needs) in a reasonable manner."

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