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Jami' at-TirmidhiThe Book on Marriage

Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1100

Chapter: What Has Been Related About Marrying Virgins

Authentic 4 scholars’ grades Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1100

Narrator:Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh

حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ زَيْدٍ، عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ ‏

"‏ أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ نَعَمْ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ لاَ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ هَلاَّ جَارِيَةً تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ مَاتَ وَتَرَكَ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ تِسْعًا فَجِئْتُ بِمَنْ يَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ‏.‏ قَالَ فَدَعَا لِي

Jabir bin Abdullah narrated:

"I married a woman and went to the Prophet, he said: 'O Jabir! Have you married?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'A virgin or a matron?' I said: 'A matron.' He said: 'Why didn't you marry a young girl, so that you may play with her and she with you?' I said: 'O Messenger of Allah! Abdullah (his father) died and left behind seven - or nine - daughter, so I have brought someone who can look after them.'" (He said:) "So he supplicated for me."

Reported by At-Tirmidhi (No. 1100).

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Al-Mubarakfuri — Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi

قَوْلُهُ : ( هَلَّا جَارِيَةً ) أَيْ بِكْرًا ( تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُك ) فِيهِ أَنَّ تَزَوُّجَ الْبِكْرِ أَوْلَى , وَأَنَّ الْمُلَاعَبَةَ مَعَ الزَّوْجَةِ مَنْدُوبٌ إِلَيْهَا , قَالَ الطِّيبِيُّ : وَهُوَ عِبَارَةٌ عَنْ الْأُلْفَةِ التَّامَّةِ , فَإِنَّ الثَّيِّبَ قَدْ تَكُونُ مُعَلَّقَةَ الْقَلْبِ بِالزَّوْجِ الْأَوَّلِ فَلَمْ تَكُنْ مَحَبَّتُهَا كَامِلَةً ; بِخِلَافِ الْبِكْرِ. وَعَلَيْهِ مَا وَرَدَ : عَلَيْكُمْ بِالْأَبْكَارِ فَإِنَّهُنَّ أَشَدُّ حُبًّا وَأَقَلُّ خِبًّا ( فَجِئْت بِمِنْ يَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ) وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ لِلْبُخَارِيِّ : كُنَّ لِي تِسْعُ أَخَوَاتٍ , فَكَرِهْت أَنْ أَجْمَعَ إِلَيْهِنَّ جَارِيَةً خَرْقَاءَ مِثْلَهُنَّ , وَلَكِنْ اِمْرَأَةً تَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ وَتُمَشِّط…

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Scholars’ grades

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 1100
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH AuthenticSahih - Agreed Upon The hadith No. 1100
Ahmad Shakird. 1377 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 1100
Bashar Awwad Ma'ruf AuthenticHasan Sahih The hadith No. 1100

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  • المسند المستخرج على صحيح مسلم لأبي نعيم (3172)فَهَلَّا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ ، قَالَ : فَإِذَا قَدِمْتَ الْكَيْسَ ، فَلَمَّا ذَهَبْنَا لِنَدْخُلَ ، قَالَ : أَمْهِلُوا حَتَّى نَدْخُلَ لَيْلا ، لِكَيْ تُمَشَّطَ الشَّعِثَةُ ، وَتَسْتَحِدَّ الْمُغِيبَةُ
  • المسند المستخرج على صحيح مسلم لأبي نعيم (3173)فَهَلَّا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ ، قُلْتُ : إِنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٍ ، فَأَحْبَبْتُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً تَجْمَعُهُنَّ ، وَتُمَشِّطُهُنَّ ، وَتَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ، قَالَ : أَمَا إِنَّكَ قَادِمٌ ، فَإِذَا قَدِمْتَ ، فَالْكَيْسَ الْكَيْسَ
  • مستخرج أبي عوانة (3193)بِكْرًا تَزَوَّجْتَ أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ قُلْتُ : بَلْ ثَيِّبٌ . قَالَ : فَهَلا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ ؟
  • مسند أبي يعلى الموصلي (1834)فَهَلا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ ، قَالَ : فَلَمَّا رَجَعُوا ، قَالَ : أَمْهِلُوا حَتَّى نَدْخُلَ لَيْلا عِشَاءً كَيْ تَمْتَشِطَ الشَّعِثَةُ ، وَتَسْتَحِدَّ الْمُغِيبَةُ
  • مسند أبي يعلى الموصلي (1967)فَهَلا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ أَوْ قَالَ : تُضَاحِكُهَا وَتُضَاحِكُكَ ؟ ، قَالَ : قُلْتُ : إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ هَلَكَ وَتَرَكَ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ ، وَإِنِّي كَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَجِيئَهُنَّ بِمِثْلِهِنَّ فَأَرَدْتُ امْرَأَةً تَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ، فَقَالَ لِي : بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ ، أَوْ قَالَ :

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