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Jami' at-TirmidhiThe Book on Marriage

Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1090

Chapter: What Has Been Related About Publicizing The Marriage

Authentic 4 scholars’ grades Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1090

Narrator:Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

حَدَّثَنَا حُمَيْدُ بْنُ مَسْعَدَةَ الْبَصْرِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ الْمُفَضَّلِ، حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ ذَكْوَانَ، عَنِ الرُّبَيِّعِ بِنْتِ مُعَوِّذٍ، قَالَتْ جَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَدَخَلَ عَلَىَّ غَدَاةَ بُنِيَ بِي فَجَلَسَ عَلَى فِرَاشِي كَمَجْلِسِكَ مِنِّي وَجُوَيْرِيَاتٌ لَنَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِدُفُوفِهِنَّ وَيَنْدُبْنَ مَنْ قُتِلَ مِنْ آبَائِي يَوْمَ بَدْرٍ إِلَى أَنْ قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏

"‏ اسْكُتِي عَنْ هَذِهِ وَقُولِي الَّذِي كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ قَبْلَهَا ‏"

Ar-Rubai bint Muawwidh said:

"The morning after the consummation of my marriage, the Prophet came and sat on my bed as far from me as you are sitting now, and our little girls started beating the Duff and reciting verses mourning my father who had been killed in the battle of Badr. One of them said: 'Among us is a Prophet who knows what will happen tomorrow.' On that the Prophet said: 'Stop saying this, and keep on saying what you were saying before.'"

Reported by At-Tirmidhi (No. 1090), Al-Bukhari (No. 5147) and Abu Dawud (No. 4922).

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Classical commentary

Al-Mubarakfuri — Tuhfat al-Ahwadhi

قَوْلُهُ : ( عَنْ الرُّبَيِّعِ ) بِضَمِّ الرَّاءِ وَفَتْحِ الْمُوَحَّدَةِ وَتَشْدِيدِ الْيَاءِ الْمَكْسُورَةِ ( بِنْتِ مُعَوِّذِ ) بِكَسْرِ الْوَاوِ الْمُشَدَّدَةِ ( غَدَاةَ بُنِيَ ) بِصِيغَةِ الْمَجْهُولِ ( بِي ) وَفِي رِوَايَةِ الشَّيْخَيْنِ : عَلَيَّ أَيْ سُلِّمْت وَزُفِفْت إِلَى زَوْجِي وَالْبِنَاءُ الدُّخُولُ بِالزَّوْجَةِ , وَبَيَّنَ اِبْنُ سَعْدٍ أَنَّهَا تَزَوَّجَتْ حِينَئِذٍ إِيَاسَ بْنَ الْبَكِيرِ اللَّيْثِيَّ وَأَنَّهَا وَلَدَتْ لَهُ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ إِيَاسٍ قِيلَ لَهُ صُحْبَةٌ ( كَمَجْلِسِك مِنِّي ) بِكَسْرِ اللَّامِ أَيْ مَكَانِ خِطَابٍ لِمَنْ يَرْوِي الْحَدِيثَ عَنْهَا وَهُوَ خَالِدُ بْنُ ذَكْوَانَ , قَالَ الْحَافِظُ فِي الْفَتْحِ. قَالَ الْكَرْمَانِيُّ هُوَ مَحْمُولٌ عَلَى أَنَّ…

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Scholars’ grades

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 1090
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH AuthenticSahih Bukhari The hadith No. 1090
Ahmad Shakird. 1377 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 1090
Bashar Awwad Ma'ruf AuthenticHasan Sahih The hadith No. 1090

Other versions

Authentic Mishkat al-Masabih 3140

The Prophet came and entered when I had been conducted to my husband, and sat on my bedding as you are sitting beside me. Some little girls of ours began to play the tambourine and eulogise those of my ancestors who were killed at the battle of Badr, and then one of them said: “And among us is a…

عَن الرّبيع بنت معوذ بن عَفْرَاءَ قَالَتْ: جَاءَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَدَخَلَ حِينَ بُنِيَ عَلَيَّ فَجَلَسَ عَلَى فِرَاشِي كمجلسك مني فَجعلت جويرات لَنَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِالدُّفِّ وَيَنْدُبْنَ مَنْ…

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Also reported by… (2)
  • الأنوار في شمائل النبي المختار (358)فَجَعَلَتْ جُوَيْرَاتٌ لَنَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِالدُّفِّ ، وَيَنْدُبْنَ مَنْ قُتِلَ مِنْ آبَائِي يَوْمَ بَدْرٍ ؛ إِذْ قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ : وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدِ . فَقَالَ : دَعِي هَذِهِ ، وَقُولِي بِالَّذِي كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ
  • شرح السنة (2267)جاءَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ ، فَدَخَلَ حِينَ بُنِيَ عَلَيَّ ، فَجَلَسَ عَلَى فِرَاشِي كَمَجْلِسِكَ مِنِّي ، فَجَعَلَتْ جُوَيْريَاتٌ لَنَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِالدُّفِّ ، وَيَنْدِبْنَ مَنْ قُتِلَ مِنْ آبَائِي يَوْمَ بَدْرٍ إذْ قَالَتْ إحْدَاهُنَّ : وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ . فَقَالَ : دَعِي هَذِهِ ، وَقُ

On the same subject

Not graded Mishkat al-Masabih 3155

‘A’isha gave a woman relative of hers among the Ansar in marriage and God’s Messenger came and said, “Have you escorted the girl to her husband?” On being told that they had, he asked whether they had sent someone along with her to sing, and when she replied that they had not, he said, “The Ansar…

" إِنَّ الْأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ: أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فحيانا وحياكم "

Narrated by Ibn ‘Abbās + 1 other version

Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 4001

The Prophet (ﷺ) came to me the night my marriage was consummated and sat down on my bed as you (the sub-narrator) are sitting now, and small girls were beating the tambourine and singing in lamentation of my father who had been killed on the day of the battle of Badr. Then one of the girls said…

وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ لاَ تَقُولِي هَكَذَا، وَقُولِي مَا كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ ‏"

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Authentic Sunan Ibn Majah 1897

“We were in Al-Madinah on the Say of 'Ashura and the girls were beating the Daff and singing. We entered upon Rubai' bint Mu'awwidh and mentioned that to her. She said: 'The Messenger of Allah entered upon me on the morning of my wedding, and there were two girls with me who were singing and…

"‏ أَمَّا هَذَا فَلاَ تَقُولُوهُ مَا يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ ‏"

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Not graded Musnad Ahmad 25779

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ وَمُهَنَّأُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ أَبُو شِبْلٍ قَالَا حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ قَالَ عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ فِي حَدِيثِهِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ عَنِ الرُّبَيِّعِ…

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā + 1 other version Arabic only

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