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Mishkat al-Masabih 3155

Chapter: Making a Marriage publicly known, asking Woman in Marriage, and the Condition laid down - Section 2

Not graded Mishkat al-Masabih 3155

Narrator:Ibn ‘Abbās

وَعَن ابْن عَبَّاس قَالَ: أنكحت عَائِشَة ذَات قَرَابَةٍ لَهَا مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ: «أَهَدَيْتُمُ الْفَتَاةَ؟» قَالُوا: نعم قَالَ: «أرسلتم مَعهَا من تغني؟» قَالَتْ: لَا فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ:

" إِنَّ الْأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ: أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فحيانا وحياكم "

Ibn ‘Abbas said:

‘A’isha gave a woman relative of hers among the Ansar in marriage and God’s Messenger came and said, “Have you escorted the girl to her husband?” On being told that they had, he asked whether they had sent someone along with her to sing, and when she replied that they had not, he said, “The Ansar are a people who give a place to love songs. I wish you had sent with her someone to say, ‘We have come to you, we have come to you; so may God preserve us and preserve you’.” Ibn Majah transmitted it.

Reported by Ibn Majah (No. 1900). Cited in Mishkat al-Masabih (No. 3155).

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Grades of other versions (6)
  • Good (hasan)Al-Albani حسن — غاية المرام (398)
  • Good (hasan)Al-Albani حسن — صحيح ابن ماجه (2/136)
  • WeakAl-Albani ضعيف — ضعيف الجامع (1420)
  • WeakAl-Albani ضعيف — السلسلة الضعيفة (2981)
  • Ibn Adi عزيز غريب — الكامل في الضعفاء (2/139)
  • WeakAl-Ayni ضعيف — عمدة القاري (20/192)

Other versions

Weak Sunan Ibn Majah 1900

'Aisha arranged a marriage for a female relative of hers among the Ansar. The Messenger of Allah came and said: Have you taken the girl (to her husbands house)?” They said: “Yes.” He said: “Have you sent someone with her to sing?” She said: “No.” The Messenger of Allah said: “The Ansar are People…

"‏ إِنَّ الأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ ‏"

Narrated by Ibn ‘Abbās

Also reported by… (2)
  • السنن الكبرى للبيهقي (13602)إِنَّ الأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ أَرْسَلْتُمْ مَنْ يَقُولُ : أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ
  • السنن الكبرى للنسائي (5375)أَهْدَيْتُمُ الْفَتَاةَ ؟ أَلا بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ : أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ ؟

On the same subject

Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 4001

The Prophet (ﷺ) came to me the night my marriage was consummated and sat down on my bed as you (the sub-narrator) are sitting now, and small girls were beating the tambourine and singing in lamentation of my father who had been killed on the day of the battle of Badr. Then one of the girls said…

وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ لاَ تَقُولِي هَكَذَا، وَقُولِي مَا كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ ‏"

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Authentic Sunan Ibn Majah 1897

“We were in Al-Madinah on the Say of 'Ashura and the girls were beating the Daff and singing. We entered upon Rubai' bint Mu'awwidh and mentioned that to her. She said: 'The Messenger of Allah entered upon me on the morning of my wedding, and there were two girls with me who were singing and…

"‏ أَمَّا هَذَا فَلاَ تَقُولُوهُ مَا يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ ‏"

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Not graded Musnad Ahmad 25779

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ وَمُهَنَّأُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ أَبُو شِبْلٍ قَالَا حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ قَالَ عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ فِي حَدِيثِهِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ عَنِ الرُّبَيِّعِ…

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā + 1 other version Arabic only

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