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Sunan an-Nasa'iThe Book of Marriage

Sunan an-Nasa'i 3371

Chapter: How To Congratulate A Man When He Gets Married

Differing grades 3 scholars’ grades Sunan an-Nasa'i 3371

Narrator:Aqīl ibn Abu Tālib

حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، وَمُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الأَعْلَى، قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدٌ، عَنْ أَشْعَثَ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، قَالَ تَزَوَّجَ عَقِيلُ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ امْرَأَةً مِنْ بَنِي جُشَمٍ فَقِيلَ لَهُ بِالرِّفَاءِ وَالْبَنِينِ ‏.‏ قَالَ قُولُوا كَمَا قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏

"‏ بَارَكَ اللَّهُ فِيكُمْ وَبَارَكَ لَكُمْ ‏"

It was narrated that Al-Hasan said:

"Aqil bin Abi Talib married a woman from Banu Jusham, and it was said to him: 'May you live in harmony and have many sons.' He said: 'Say what the Messenger of Allah said: Barak Allahu fikum, wa baraka lakum. (May Allah bless you and bestow blessings upon you.)'"

Reported by An-Nasa’i (No. 3371).

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Classical commentary

Al-Sindi — Hashiyat al-Sindi on Sunan al-Nasa'i

قَوْله ( فَقِيلَ لَهُ بِالرِّفَاءِ وَالْبَنِينَ ) الرِّفَاء بِكَسْرِ الرَّاء وَالْمَدّ قَالَ الْخَطَّابِيُّ كَانَ مِنْ عَادَتهمْ أَنْ يَقُولُوا بِالرِّفَاءِ وَالْبَنِينَ وَالرِّفَاء مِنْ الرَّفْو يَجِيء بِمَعْنَيَيْنِ أَحَدهمَا التَّسْكِين يُقَال رَفَوْت الرَّجُل إِذَا سَكَّنْت مَا بِهِ مِنْ رَوْع وَالثَّانِي أَنْ يَكُون بِمَعْنَى الْمُوَافَقَة وَالِالْتِئَام وَمِنْهُ رَفَوْت الثَّوْب. وَالْبَاء مُتَعَلِّقَة بِمَحْذُوفٍ دَلَّ عَلَيْهِ الْمَعْنَى أَيْ أَعْرَسْت ذَكَرَهُ الزَّمَخْشَرِيّ.…

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Scholars’ grades

The 3 scholars cited do not give the same grade: each one is shown below.

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3371
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH WeakDaif The hadith No. 3371
Abd al-Fattah Abu Ghuddahd. 1417 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3371

Other versions

Also reported by… (3)
  • السنن الكبرى للنسائي (5370)بَارَكَ اللَّهُ فِيكُمْ ، وَبَارَكَ لَكُمْ
  • السنن الكبرى للنسائي (9679)بَارَكَ اللَّهُ فِيكُمْ ، وَبَارَكَ لَكُمْ
  • المعجم الكبير للطبراني (13967)بَارَكَ اللَّهُ فِيكُمْ ، وَبَارَكَ لَكُمْ

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