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Sunan Ibn MajahThe Chapters on Marriage

Sunan Ibn Majah 1900

Chapter: Singing and (beating) the Daff

Weak 3 scholars’ grades Sunan Ibn Majah 1900

Narrator:Ibn ‘Abbās

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، أَنْبَأَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ، أَنْبَأَنَا الأَجْلَحُ، عَنْ أَبِي الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، قَالَ أَنْكَحَتْ عَائِشَةُ ذَاتَ قَرَابَةٍ لَهَا مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ فَجَاءَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ أَهْدَيْتُمُ الْفَتَاةَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالُوا نَعَمْ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ أَرْسَلْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يُغَنِّي قَالَتْ لاَ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏

"‏ إِنَّ الأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ ‏"

It was narrated that Ibn'Abbas said:

'Aisha arranged a marriage for a female relative of hers among the Ansar. The Messenger of Allah came and said: Have you taken the girl (to her husbands house)?” They said: “Yes.” He said: “Have you sent someone with her to sing?” She said: “No.” The Messenger of Allah said: “The Ansar are People with romantic feelings. Why don't you send someone with her to say: 'We have come to you, we have come to you, may Allah bless you and us?'”

Reported by Ibn Majah (No. 1900).

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Classical commentary

Al-Sindi — Hashiyat al-Sindi on Sunan Ibn Majah

قَوْله ( أَهْدَيْتُمْ الْفَتَاة ) أَيْ أَرْسَلْتُمُوهَا إِلَى بَيْت بَعْلهَا قِيلَ مَجِيء الْفِعْل هَدَى وَأَهْدَى مُجَرَّدًا وَمَزِيدًا فِيهِ مِنْ بَاب الْأَفْعَال فَالْهَمْزَة تَحْتَمِل أَنْ تَكُون لِلِاسْتِفْهَامِ وَتَحْتَمِل أَنْ تَكُون مِنْ بِنَاء الْفِعْل وَالْهَاء عَلَى الثَّانِي سَاكِنَة وَيَحْتَاج الْكَلَام إِلَى تَقْدِير الْهَمْزَة لِلِاسْتِفْهَامِ وَالْغَزَل بِفَتْحَتَيْنِ اِسْم مِنْ الْمُغَازَلَة بِمَعْنَى مُحَادَثَة النِّسَاء وَمِثْلهمْ لَا يَخْلُو عَنْ حُبّ التَّغَنِّي ( فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ ) قِيلَ وَآخِره لَوْلَا الْحِنْطَة السَّمْرَاء لَمْ تَسْمَنْ عَذَارَاكُمْ وَفِي الزَّوَائِد إِسْنَاده مُخْتَلَف فِيهِ مِنْ أَجَل الْأَجْلَح وَأَبِي الزُّبَيْر يَقُولُونَ إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَ…

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Scholars’ grades

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH WeakDaif The hadith No. 1900
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH WeakDaif The hadith No. 1900
Muhammad Fu'ad Abd al-Baqid. 1388 AH WeakDaif The hadith No. 1900

Other versions

Not graded Mishkat al-Masabih 3155

‘A’isha gave a woman relative of hers among the Ansar in marriage and God’s Messenger came and said, “Have you escorted the girl to her husband?” On being told that they had, he asked whether they had sent someone along with her to sing, and when she replied that they had not, he said, “The Ansar…

" إِنَّ الْأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ: أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فحيانا وحياكم "

Narrated by Ibn ‘Abbās

Also reported by… (2)
  • السنن الكبرى للبيهقي (13602)إِنَّ الأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ فَلَوْ أَرْسَلْتُمْ مَنْ يَقُولُ : أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ
  • السنن الكبرى للنسائي (5375)أَهْدَيْتُمُ الْفَتَاةَ ؟ أَلا بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يَقُولُ : أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيَّانَا وَحَيَّاكُمْ ؟

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Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 4001

The Prophet (ﷺ) came to me the night my marriage was consummated and sat down on my bed as you (the sub-narrator) are sitting now, and small girls were beating the tambourine and singing in lamentation of my father who had been killed on the day of the battle of Badr. Then one of the girls said…

وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ‏.‏ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏ لاَ تَقُولِي هَكَذَا، وَقُولِي مَا كُنْتِ تَقُولِينَ ‏"

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Authentic Sunan Ibn Majah 1897

“We were in Al-Madinah on the Say of 'Ashura and the girls were beating the Daff and singing. We entered upon Rubai' bint Mu'awwidh and mentioned that to her. She said: 'The Messenger of Allah entered upon me on the morning of my wedding, and there were two girls with me who were singing and…

"‏ أَمَّا هَذَا فَلاَ تَقُولُوهُ مَا يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي غَدٍ إِلاَّ اللَّهُ ‏"

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā

Not graded Musnad Ahmad 25779

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ وَمُهَنَّأُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْحَمِيدِ أَبُو شِبْلٍ قَالَا حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ قَالَ عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ فِي حَدِيثِهِ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ عَنِ الرُّبَيِّعِ…

Narrated by Ar-Rubayyi bint Mu‘awwidh ibn Afrā + 1 other version Arabic only

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