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Sunan an-Nasa'iThe Book of Marriage

Sunan an-Nasa'i 3219

Chapter: Marrying Virgins

Authentic 3 scholars’ grades Sunan an-Nasa'i 3219

Narrator:Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh

أَخْبَرَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ جَابِرٍ، قَالَ تَزَوَّجْتُ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ ‏"‏ أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ ثَيِّبًا ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏

"‏ فَهَلاَّ بِكْرًا تُلاَعِبُهَا وَتُلاَعِبُكَ ‏"

Narrated Jabir:

It was narrated that Jabir said: "I got married then I came to the Prophet and he said: 'Have you got married, O Jabir?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously married woman?' I said: 'To a previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?'"

Reported by An-Nasa’i (No. 3219), Al-Bukhari (No. 4052) and Ahmad (No. 13786).

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Classical commentary

Al-Sindi — Hashiyat al-Sindi on Sunan al-Nasa'i

قَوْله ( فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا ) أَيْ فَهَلَّا تَزَوَّجْت بِكْرًا. و قَوْله ( تُلَاعِبهَا وَتُلَاعِبك ) تَعْلِيل لِلتَّرْغِيبِ فِي الْبِكْر سَوَاء كَانَتْ الْجُمْلَة مُسْتَأْنَفَة كَمَا هُوَ الظَّاهِر أَوْ صِفَة لِبِكْرِ أَيْ لِيَكُونَ بَيْنكُمَا كَمَال التَّأَلُّف وَالتَّأَنُّس فَإِنَّ الثَّيِّب قَدْ تَكُون مُعَلَّقَة الْقَلْب بِالسَّابِقِ.…

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Scholars’ grades

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3219
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH AuthenticSahih - Agreed Upon The hadith No. 3219
Abd al-Fattah Abu Ghuddahd. 1417 AH AuthenticSahih The hadith No. 3219

Other versions

Authentic Sahih al-Bukhari 4052

"Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "Have you got married O Jabir?" I replied, "Yes." He asked "What, a virgin or a matron?" I replied, "Not a virgin but a matron." He said, "Why did you not marry a young girl who would have fondled with you?" I replied, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! My father was…

"‏ هَلْ نَكَحْتَ يَا جَابِرُ ‏"‏‏.‏ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ مَاذَا أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ‏"‏‏.‏ قُلْتُ لاَ بَلْ ثَيِّبًا‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَهَلاَّ جَارِيَةً تُلاَعِبُكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ، إِنَّ أَبِي…

Narrated by Jābir ibn ‘Abdullāh

Also reported by… (7)
  • أسد الغابة (2524)فهلا بكراً تلاعبها وتلاعبك
  • السنن الكبرى للنسائي (5145)فَهَلا بِكْرًا تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ
  • غريب الحديث للخطابي (635)فَهَلا بِكْرًا تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ
  • مستخرج أبي عوانة (3191)هَلْ نَكَحْتَ يَا جَابِرُ ؟ قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ . قَالَ : مَاذَا أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ ، قُلْتُ : لا بَلْ ثَيِّبٌ . قَالَ : فَهَلا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُكَ وَتُلاعِبُهَا ؟ قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ أَبِي قُتِلَ يَوْمَ أُحُدٍ ، وَتَرَكَ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ ، وَكُنَّ لِي تِسْعَ أَخَوَاتٍ ، فَلَمْ أُ
  • مسند أبي داود الطيالسي (1803)كَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ جَارِيَةً خَرْقَاءَ مِثْلَهُنَّ ، وَلَكِنِ امْرَأَةً تَمْشُطُهُنَّ ، وَتَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ، قَالَ : أَصَبْتَ
  • مسند أبي يعلى الموصلي (1954)فَهَلا جَارِيَةً تُلاعِبُكَ وَتُلاعِبُهَا ؟ ، قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّ أَبِي قُتِلَ يَوْمَ أُحُدٍ وَتَرَكَ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ ، وَهُنَّ لِي تِسْعُ أَخَوَاتٍ ، فَلَمْ أُحِبَّ أَنْ أَجَمَعَ إِلَيْهِنَّ جَارِيَةً خَرْقَاءَ مِثْلَهُنَّ ، وَلَكِنِ امْرَأَةً تُمَشِّطُهُنَّ وَتَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ،
  • مسند ابن الجعد (2493)فَهَلا بِكْرًا تُلاعِبُهَا وَتُلاعِبُكَ

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