Mishkat al-Masabih 3235

Chapter: Sharing Visits to one’s Wives Equally - Section 2

Good (hasan) graded by Al-Albani Mishkat al-Masabih 3235

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ: أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يَقْسِمُ بَيْنَ نِسَائِهِ فَيَعْدِلُ وَيَقُولُ: «اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا قَسْمِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلَا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلَا أَمْلِكُ» . رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِيُّ وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ وَالنَّسَائِيُّ وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ والدارمي

‘A’isha told that the Prophet used to divide his time among his wives equally and say, “O God, this is my division concerning what I possess, so do not blame me concerning what Thou possessest and I do not.” Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud, Nasa’i, Ibn Majah and Darimi transmitted it.

Reported by Abu Dawud (No. 2134), At-Tirmidhi (No. 1140), An-Nasa’i (No. 3943), Ibn Majah (No. 1971), Ahmad (No. 23959) and Ad-Darimi (No. 2110). Cited in Mishkat al-Masabih (No. 3235).

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Scholar	Grade	Applies to	Work
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH	Good (hasan)جيد	The hadith	تحقيق مشكاة المصابيح

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Weak Sunan Abu Dawud 2134

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to divide his time equally and said: O Allah, this is my division concerning what I control, so do not blame me concerning what You control and I do not. Abu Dawud said: By it meant the heart.

اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا قَسْمِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلاَ تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلاَ أَمْلِكُ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Weak Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1140

The Prophet would divide (his time) equally between his wives and said: "O Allah! This is my division in what I have control over, so do not punish me for what You have control over which I do not have control over."

"‏ اللَّهُمَّ هَذِهِ قِسْمَتِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلاَ تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلاَ أَمْلِكُ ‏"

Weak Sunan an-Nasa'i 3943

"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives then he would say: 'O Allah, this is what I have done with regard to that over which I have control, so do not blame me for that over which You have control and I do not.'" Hammad bin Zaid narrated it in Mursal form.

"‏ اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا فِعْلِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلاَ تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلاَ أَمْلِكُ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Weak Sunan Ibn Majah 1971

"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives, then he would say 'O Allah, this is what I am doing with regard to that which is within my control, so do not hold me accountable for that which is under Your control and is beyond my control.'"

"‏ اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا فِعْلِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلاَ تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلاَ أَمْلِكُ ‏"

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Not graded Musnad Ahmad 23959

حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا حَمَّادٌ وَعَفَّانُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ قَالَ عَفَّانُ وحَدَّثَنَا أَيُّوبُ عَنْ أَبِي قِلَابَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ…

Narrated by Ā’ishah Arabic only

Not graded Sunan ad-Darimi 2110

أَخْبَرَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَاصِمٍ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَيُّوبَ عَنْ أَبِي قِلَابَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ الْخَطْمِيِّ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ قَالَتْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ…

Narrated by Ā’ishah Arabic only

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Not graded Bulugh al-Maram 1055

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to divide visits to his wives equally and say, "O Allah, this is my division concerning what I possess, so do not blame me concerning what You possess and I do not." [Reported by al-Arba'a; Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic). at-Tirmidhi held that the…

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ‏-رَضِيَ اَللَّهُ عَنْهَا‏- قَالَتْ : { كَانَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ ‏- صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏-يَقْسِمُ , فَيَعْدِلُ , وَيَقُولُ : "اَللَّهُمَّ هَذَا قَسْمِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ , فَلَا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ…

Narrated by Ā’ishah

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أمالي ابن بشران (107)اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا فِعْلِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ ، فَلا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلا أَمْلِكُ
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القضاء والقدر للبيهقي (246)اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا قَسْمِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلا أَمْلِكُ
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جامع البيان عن تأويل آي القرآن (9763)اللَّهُمَّ هَذِهِ قِسْمَتِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ , فَلا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلا أَمْلِكُ
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مسند إسحاق بن راهويه (1226)يَقْسِمُ بَيْنَ نِسَائِهِ فَيَعْدِلُ ، وَيَقُولُ : اللَّهُمَّ هَذِهِ قِسْمَتِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ ، فَلا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلا أَمْلِكُ
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مصنف ابن أبي شيبة (13386)يَقْسِمُ بَيْنَ نِسَائِهِ فَيَعْدِلُ ، ثُمَّ يَقُولُ : اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا فِعْلِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ فَلَا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلَا أَمْلِكُ
معرفة السنن والآثار للبيهقي (3843)يَقْسِمُ فَيَعْدِلُ , وَيَقُولُ :اللَّهُمَّ هَذَا قَسْمِي فِيمَا أَمْلِكُ ، فَلا تَلُمْنِي فِيمَا تَمْلِكُ وَلا أَمْلِكُ

Mishkat al-Masabih 3235

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The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to divide his time equally and said: O Allah, this is my division concerning what I control, so do not blame me concerning what You control and I do not. Abu Dawud said: By it meant the heart.

The Prophet would divide (his time) equally between his wives and said: "O Allah! This is my division in what I have control over, so do not punish me for what You have control over which I do not have control over."

"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives then he would say: 'O Allah, this is what I have done with regard to that over which I have control, so do not blame me for that over which You have control and I do not.'" Hammad bin Zaid narrated it in Mursal form.

"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives, then he would say 'O Allah, this is what I am doing with regard to that which is within my control, so do not hold me accountable for that which is under Your control and is beyond my control.'"

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to divide visits to his wives equally and say, "O Allah, this is my division concerning what I possess, so do not blame me concerning what You possess and I do not." [Reported by al-Arba'a; Ibn Hibban and al-Hakim graded it Sahih (authentic). at-Tirmidhi held that the…

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The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to divide his time equally and said: O Allah, this is my division concerning what I control, so do not blame me concerning what You control and I do not. Abu Dawud said: By it meant the heart.

The Prophet would divide (his time) equally between his wives and said: "O Allah! This is my division in what I have control over, so do not punish me for what You have control over which I do not have control over."

"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives then he would say: 'O Allah, this is what I have done with regard to that over which I have control, so do not blame me for that over which You have control and I do not.'" Hammad bin Zaid narrated it in Mursal form.

"The Messenger of Allah used to divide his time equally among his wives, then he would say 'O Allah, this is what I am doing with regard to that which is within my control, so do not hold me accountable for that which is under Your control and is beyond my control.'"

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