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Sunan ad-Darimi 2125

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Narrator:Abu Hurayrah

أَخْبَرَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ مَخْلَدٍ حَدَّثَنَا مَالِكٌ عَنْ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ عَنْ الْأَعْرَجِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّمَا الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا وَإِنْ تَسْتَمْتِعْ تَسْتَمْتِعْ وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ

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Reported by Ad-Darimi (No. 2125) and Ahmad (No. 9419, 10436).

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  • أمالي ابن بشران (513)إِنَّمَا الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا ، وَإِنْ تَسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا تَسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا وَبِهَا عِوَجٌ
  • اعتلال القلوب للخرائطي (224)لَنْ تَسْتَقِيمَ لَكَ الْمَرْأَةُ عَلَى خَلِيقَةٍ وَاحِدَةٍ ، إِنَّمَا هِيَ كَالضِّلَعِ ، إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا ، وَإِنْ تَتْرُكْهَا تَسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ
  • المعجم الأوسط للطبراني (581)لا تَسْتَقِيمُ لَكَ الْمَرْأَةُ عَلَى خَلِيقَةٍ وَاحِدَةٍ ، إِنَّمَا هِيَ كَالضِّلْعِ ، إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا ، وَإنْ تَتْرُكْهَا تَسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ
  • مستخرج أبي عوانة (3578)لَنْ تَسْتَقِيمَ لَكَ عَلَى خَلِيقَةٍ وَاحِدَةٍ ، إِنَّمَا هِيَ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا ، وَإِنْ تَتْرُكْهَا تَسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ
  • مسند الشاميين للطبراني (3284)لَنْ تَسْتَقِيمَ لَكَ الْمَرْأَةُ عَلَى هَيْأَةٍ وَاحِدَةٍ ، إِنَّمَا هِيَ كَالضِّلْعِ إِنْ تُقِمْهَا تَكْسِرْهَا ، وَإِنَّ تَتْرُكْهَا تَسْتَمْتِعْ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ

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Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih al-Bukhari 5184

I advise you to treat women kindly, for the woman was created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, treat women kindly.

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I advise you to treat women kindly, for the woman was created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will…

الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ، إِنْ أَقَمْتَهَا كَسَرْتَهَا، وَإِنِ اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ ‏"

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Authentic Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1188

The Messenger of Allah said: "Indeed the woman is like a rib, if you try to straighten her you will break her, and if you leave her, what you enjoy from her will be with the crookedness."

"‏ إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ كَالضِّلَعِ إِنْ ذَهَبْتَ تُقِيمُهَا كَسَرْتَهَا وَإِنْ تَرَكْتَهَا اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا عَلَى عِوَجٍ ‏"

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