Sunan Abu Dawud Fasting (Kitab Al-Siyam)

Sunan Abu Dawud 2382

Chapter: Kissing For A Fasting Person

Authentic 4 scholars’ grades Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sunan Abu Dawud 2382

حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنِ الأَسْوَدِ، وَعَلْقَمَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، قَالَتْ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم

يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَ لإِرْبِهِ ‏.‏

Narrated 'Aishah:

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace while he was fasting, but he was the one of you who had most control over his desire.

Reported by Abu Dawud (No. 2382), Al-Bukhari (No. 1927), Muslim (No. 1106d, 1106e, 1106f, 1106g, 1106h), At-Tirmidhi (No. 728, 729), Ahmad (No. 23025, 23802, 24050, 24071, 24244, 24473, 24742) and Ad-Darimi (No. 762, 763).

Classical commentary

Al-Azimabadi — Awn al-Ma'bud

( يُقَبِّل وَهُوَ صَائِم وَيُبَاشِر وَهُوَ صَائِم ) : قَالَ النَّوَوِيّ : إِنَّ الْقُبْلَة فِي الصَّوْم لَيْسَتْ مُحَرَّمَة عَلَى مَنْ لَمْ تُحَرِّك شَهْوَته لَكِنَّ الْأَوْلَى لَهُ تَرْكهَا , وَلَا يُقَال إِنَّهَا مَكْرُوهَة لَهُ , وَإِنَّمَا قَالَ الشَّافِعِيّ إِنَّهَا خِلَاف الْأَوْلَى فِي حَقّه مَعَ ثُبُوت أَنَّ النَّبِيّ صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كَانَ يَفْعَلهَا لِأَنَّهُ صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يُؤْمَن فِي حَقّه مُجَاوَزَة الْقُبْلَة وَيُخَاف عَلَى غَيْره مُجَاوَزَتهَا كَمَا قَالَتْ عَائِشَة " كَانَ أَمْلَككُمْ لِإِرْبِهِ " وَأَمَّا مَنْ حَرَّكَتْ شَهْوَته فَهِيَ حَرَام فِي حَقّه عَلَى الْأَصَحّ. قَالَ الْقَاضِي : قَدْ قَالَ بِإِبَاحَتِهَا لِلصَّائِمِ مُطْلَقًا جَمَاعَ…

Scholar	Grade	Applies to	Work
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH	AuthenticSahih صحيح	The hadith	No. 2382
Shu'ayb al-Arna'utd. 1438 AH	AuthenticHasan Sahih	The hadith	No. 2382
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH	AuthenticSahih Bukhari (1927) Sahih Muslim (1106)	The hadith	No. 2382
Muhammad Muhyi al-Din Abd al-Hamidd. 1392 AH	AuthenticSahih	The hadith	No. 2382

Other versions

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih al-Bukhari 1927

The Prophet (ﷺ) used to kiss and embrace (his wives) while he was fasting, and he had more power to control his desires than any of you. Said Jabir, "The person who gets discharge after casting a look (on his wife) should complete his fast."

يُقَبِّلُ وَيُبَاشِرُ، وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ، وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ‏.‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih Muslim 1106d

Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) used to kiss (his wives) while fasting and embraced (them) while fasting; but he had the greatest mastery over his desire among you.

يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَلَكِنَّهُ أَمْلَكُكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ ‏.‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih Muslim 1106e

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to kiss (his wives) while fasting; and he had the greatest control over his desire (as compared with you).

يُقَبِّلُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ ‏.‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih Muslim 1106f

'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) said that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) used to embrace (his wives) while fasting.

يُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ ‏.‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih Muslim 1106g

I and Masruq went to 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) and asked. her if the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) embraced (his wives) while fasting. She said: Yes; but he had the greatest control over his desire among you: or he was one of those who had control over his desire.

يُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ وَلَكِنَّهُ كَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ أَوْ مِنْ أَمْلَكِكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ ‏.‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Sahih Muslim 1106h

It is further narrated on the authority of Aswad and Masruq that they went to the Mother of the Believers and they asked her (and the rest of the hadith is the same)

وَحَدَّثَنِيهِ يَعْقُوبُ الدَّوْرَقِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَوْنٍ، عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، عَنِ الأَسْوَدِ، وَمَسْرُوقٍ أَنَّهُمَا دَخَلاَ عَلَى أُمِّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَسْأَلاَنِهَا ‏.‏ فَذَكَرَ نَحْوَهُ ‏.‏

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Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Jami' at-Tirmidhi 728

"The Messenger of Allah would fondle me while he was fasting, and he had the most control among you of his limb (li irbihi)."

يُبَاشِرُنِي وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ ‏.‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Authentic Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Jami' at-Tirmidhi 729

"The Messenger of Allah would kiss and fondle while he was fasting, and he had the most control among you of his limbs."

يُقَبِّلُ وَيُبَاشِرُ وَهُوَ صَائِمٌ وَكَانَ أَمْلَكَكُمْ لإِرْبِهِ ‏

Narrated by Ā’ishah

Not graded Muttafaq ‘alayh (Bukhari and Muslim) Musnad Ahmad 23025