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Sunan Abu Dawud 2214

Chapter: Regarding Az-Zihar

Differing grades 3 scholars’ grades Sunan Abu Dawud 2214

Narrator:Khuwayla bint Mālik ibn Tha‘laba

حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ آدَمَ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ إِدْرِيسَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ، عَنْ مَعْمَرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ حَنْظَلَةَ، عَنْ يُوسُفَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ سَلاَمٍ، عَنْ خُوَيْلَةَ بِنْتِ مَالِكِ بْنِ ثَعْلَبَةَ، قَالَتْ ظَاهَرَ مِنِّي زَوْجِي أَوْسُ بْنُ الصَّامِتِ فَجِئْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَشْكُو إِلَيْهِ وَرَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يُجَادِلُنِي فِيهِ وَيَقُولُ ‏"‏ اتَّقِي اللَّهَ فَإِنَّهُ ابْنُ عَمِّكِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ فَمَا بَرِحْتُ حَتَّى نَزَلَ الْقُرْآنُ ‏‏{‏ قَدْ سَمِعَ اللَّهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا ‏}‏ إِلَى الْفَرْضِ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ يُعْتِقُ رَقَبَةً ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ لاَ يَجِدُ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَيَصُومُ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّهُ شَيْخٌ كَبِيرٌ مَا بِهِ مِنْ صِيَامٍ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَلْيُطْعِمْ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ مَا عِنْدَهُ مِنْ شَىْءٍ يَتَصَدَّقُ بِهِ قَالَتْ فَأُتِيَ سَاعَتَئِذٍ بِعَرَقٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَإِنِّي أُعِينُهُ بِعَرَقٍ آخَرَ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ قَدْ أَحْسَنْتِ

اذْهَبِي فَأَطْعِمِي بِهَا عَنْهُ سِتِّينَ مِسْكِينًا وَارْجِعِي إِلَى ابْنِ عَمِّكِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ وَالْعَرَقُ سِتُّونَ صَاعًا

Narrated Khuwaylah, daughter of Malik ibn Tha'labah:

My husband, Aws ibn as-Samit, pronounced the words: You are like my mother. So I came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), complaining to him about my husband.

The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) disputed with me and said: Remain dutiful to Allah; he is your cousin.

I continued (complaining) until the Qur'anic verse came down: "Certainly has Allah heard the speech of the one who argues with you, [O Muhammad], concerning her husband..." [58:1] till the prescription of expiation.

He then said: He should set free a slave. She said: He cannot afford it. He said: He should fast for two consecutive months. She said: Messenger of Allah, he is an old man; he cannot keep fasts. He said: He should feed sixty poor people. She said: He has nothing which he may give in alms. At that moment an araq (i.e. date-basket holding fifteen or sixteen sa's) was brought to him.

I said: I shall help him with another date-basked ('araq). He said: You have done well. Go and feed sixty poor people on his behalf, and return to your cousin. The narrator said: An araq holds sixty sa's of dates.

Abu Dawud said: She atoned on his behalf without seeking his permission.

Abu Dawud said: This man (Aws b. al-Samit) is the brother of 'Ubadah b. al-Samit.

Reported by Abu Dawud (No. 2214).

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Al-Azimabadi — Awn al-Ma'bud

( تُجَادِلك فِي زَوْجهَا ) : هَذِهِ الْآيَة الْكَرِيمَة نَزَلَتْ فِي خَوْلَة وَيُقَال لَهَا خُوَيْلَة بِالتَّصْغِيرِ ظَاهَرَ مِنْهَا زَوْجهَا وَكَانَ الظِّهَار طَلَاقًا فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّة , فَاسْتَفْتَتْ رَسُول اللَّه صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ : حَرُمْت عَلَيْهِ فَحَلَفَتْ أَنَّهُ مَا ذَكَرَ طَلَاقًا , فَقَالَ حَرُمْت عَلَيْهِ , فَقَالَتْ أَشْكُو إِلَى اللَّه فَاقَتِي وَجَعَلَتْ تُرَاجِع رَسُول اللَّه صَلَّى اللَّه عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَتَرْفَع رَأْسهَا إِلَى السَّمَاء وَتَشْكُو إِلَى اللَّه ( إِلَى الْفَرْض ) : أَيْ إِلَى مَا فَرَضَ اللَّه تَعَالَى مِنْ الْكَفَّارَة وَتَمَام الْآيَة { وَتَشْتَكِي إِلَى اللَّه وَاَللَّه يَسْمَع تَحَاوُركُمَا إِنَّ اللَّه سَمِيع بَصِير الَّذِينَ…

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Scholars’ grades

The 3 scholars cited do not give the same grade: each one is shown below.

ScholarGradeApplies toWork
Al-Albanid. 1420 AH Good (hasan)Hasan The hadith No. 2214
Zubair Ali Zaid. 1435 AH WeakDaif The hadith No. 2214
Muhammad Muhyi al-Din Abd al-Hamidd. 1392 AH Good (hasan)Hasan The hadith No. 2214

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  • السنن الكبرى للبيهقي (14087)اتَّقِي اللَّهَ فَإِنَّهُ زَوْجُكِ وَابْنُ عَمِّكِ ، فَمَا بَرِحْتُ حَتَّى نَزَلَ الْقُرْآنُ قَدْ سَمِعَ اللَّهُ قَوْلَ الَّتِي تُجَادِلُكَ فِي زَوْجِهَا سورة المجادلة آية 1 ، قَالَ : يُعْتِقُ رَقَبَةً ، قُلْتُ : لا يَجِدُ ، قَالَ : فَيَصُومُ شَهْرَيْنِ مُتَتَابِعَيْنِ ، قَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّه

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